Thursday 8 February 2018

Why do so many adults struggle to achieve physical change? Weak ownership behaviour.

Why am I doing this?  To move forward.  Does this information move me forward?  Will the execution of these tasks move me forward?  There is a circularity in any training process: identify the target (muscle or motor ability) and an appropriate solution.  Complete the work; target improved.  Have I moved forward?  Nope.  The person, and not just the system, must engage at a higher level or in a new context or we are just ‘spinning the gears’; going around in circles.  That’s what ownership is about: taking responsibility for new horizons. 
The interesting thing about ownership is that if we were to ask whether we believe children or adults are ‘better owners of their destiny’, I am confident most would answer that adults, with all their ‘adult responsibilities’.  In addition, children don’t think beyond the now so how could they more strongly own destiny?  I have the privilege of working with both groups and I can say categorically that children are far more constructive at moving forward.  Yes, because there is a basic biological drive to do so but more because they are fantastic at moving beyond ‘now’.  Children don’t look backwards or reflect.  They’re fascinated by what might be around the next corner and adults need that curiosity more than they know.

So, if you’re stuck achieving change perhaps you might like to drop the rationalisations and just jump. 

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